Career Advice That Doesn’t Suck

Seven takeaways:

Bloom’s 7 pieces of advice of career advice, designed to apply to any stage of your career, are:

  1. Swallow the Frog: Mark Twain wrote, “If it’s your job to eat a frog, it’s best to do it first thing in the morning. And if it’s your job to eat two frogs, it’s best to eat the biggest one first.” This is not only a reminder to do the hard things in the day first. It is a reminder to look for opportunities to do the hard things for your bosses– both to add value and to stand out from those unwilling to do the hard tasks.
  2. Do the “Old Fashioned” Things Well: Simple habits like eye contact, punctuality, good posture, and kindness are timeless. These small but powerful actions will never go out of style, and set you apart in a world where basic courtesies are too often overlooked.
  3. Work Hard First (& Smart Later): It is simple: Hard work is the foundation for success. Before focusing on working smart or cutting corners, establish a reputation for effort, reliability, and getting things done. Over time, this earns you the leverage to work more efficiently.
  4. Build Storytelling Skills: Great leaders aren’t necessarily the smartest—they’re the best at aggregating complex sets of data, and communicating it simply & effectively. They turn important learnings into clear, compelling narratives. If you can master storytelling, you’ll always bring value to any organization.
  5. Build a Reputation for Figuring It Out: No one has all the answers, especially early in their career. The most valuable people are those who can take on new challenges, ask the right questions, and solve problems independently. Doing these things is the easiest way to beat imposter syndrome and get key experience.
  6. Show Up Early (& Stay Late): Being present before and after key meetings is the best way to increase your “luck surface area”– it increases your exposure to opportunities and important conversations. In remote settings, seek out moments to connect and engage outside of formal meetings, as this in-person connection will be even more vital.
  7. Dive Through Cracked Doors: Opportunities don’t always present themselves in obvious ways. Pay attention to life’s small openings, unexpected chances, and moments where you can step up—these often lead to the biggest career breakthroughs.

In your career, many things will feel maddeningly beyond your control. But– like in all areas of life, directing your energy toward what you can control will always push you in a better and more actionable direction.

By Writer & Entrepreneur Sahil Bloom
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You’re Being Alienated From Your Own Attention

Takeaways:

In this piece, Chris Hayes argues that almost every aspect of human life is being reoriented around the pursuit of attention, making it the most important resource on earth.

In the modern age, the ability to command attention outweighs any other in terms of building a business or a platform. The market for attention has become one of the most competitive and innovative in history.

Attention is the essence of consciousness, yet it can be seized from us before we even realize it—stolen by a sudden noise or a flashing light. As competition for our focus intensifies, more aggressive tactics emerge, turning our daily environments (both in real life and in digital spaces) into overstimulating arenas akin to casino floors.

Why? Because before you can persuade, you must first capture attention. Anyone from great showmen to great salespeople, marketers, advertisers, and so many more have all used the power of attention to accrue wealth and power. Thus– In today’s world, public discourse, commerce, social life, and even parenting have become battles for attention—and we’re all feeling the fatigue.

Knowing that the world is being reshaped around the pursuit of human attention forces the question: What do we want to pay attention to? If we didn’t have all the technologies and corporations vying for our attention, if our attention wasn’t being commodified and extracted, what would we affirmatively choose to pay attention to?

Your answer to this question should be a call to action. Hayes argues that understanding and addressing the gap between the attention demanded of us and the areas we want to which we want to pay attention is massively important. If we don’t fight to direct our attention to the things we care about, there is evidence that we lose our connection to them.

“We don’t have to give in to the constant external demands for our attention,” he says. We must use every tool and strategy imaginable to wrest back our will, to create a world in which we point our attention where we want it to go.

From Chris Hayes at The Atlantic:
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6 Steps to Becoming Excellent in All You Do

Six takeaways:

Excellence is almost universally coveted and valued. While no two paths to excellence are the same, putting these six steps into practice will help you along the journey:

  1. Understand that worthy pursuits carry a price tag: true excellence requires a level of focus and dedication that may come at the cost of diligent attention to other parts of your life. Maintaining a balanced life is important, though excellence may require skewing time/attention in one particular direction temporarily. It is important to acknowledge that, because that allows you to make corrections.
  2. Get angry with your own mediocrity: The article is not calling its readers mediocre- it is just saying that making mediocrity the enemy pushes us to maximize our talents, energies, and tenacity as we pursue improvement. “Excellence trumps mediocrity when we exhaust our storehouse of talents,” Arcement writes.
  3. Be willing to be disciplined: discipline provides momentum, and helps us avoid the distractions that chip away at achievement of our goals. Prolonged discipline makes us stubborn and tenacious in our pursuit of excellence. To eschew discipline is to settle for less than what is possible.
  4. Don’t settle on only making use of a small part of your abilities: We cannot control the circumstances of our birth, or the set of innate characteristics we are blessed with. We can control the level of effort we put in to maximize the utility of these things. By being strong-willed, dedicated, and honest about your strengths, you can maximize your own qualities and leverage them in your pursuit of excellence.
  5. Remove the word “impossible” from your vocabulary: The first step in achieving anything is believing that it is possible. To think of something as impossible is to completely dismiss any chance of it happening. A simple mental switch of rooting out this all-too-pervasive word from one’s vocabulary and mind opens up a world of possibility.
  6. Be willing to step up your personal initiative: the most powerful motivation comes from within. Allowing external factors deter you is the easiest thing to do. Remembering that your own engine is the one that powers you is important in becoming the best version of yourself.

By Billy Arcement for The Business Journals
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I spent 10 years studying what makes us happy in life—here’s the No. 1 thing I overlooked the entire time

Five takeaways:

Gretchen Rubin is a writer who explores happiness and success. After a decade of researching the components of human happiness, she noticed that she had overlooked the role of the body in making us feel more connected, less stressed, and more alive.

By intentionally channeling each of the five senses, Rubin found new and untapped sources of happiness. Here are her five tips for bringing this benefit into your own life:

  1. Need a burst of energy and cheer? Use your sense of smell.
    The introduction of scents can provide an instant mood boost, heighten awareness, and bring you into the present moment. Everyday smells—like fresh towels or fine wood—can be uplifting. Specific scents, such as eucalyptus, may transport you to a meaningful past experience.
  2. Stressed out? Use your sense of touch.
    Items like fidget spinners and soft blankets offer a soothing effect and can reduce stress immensely. This is why they are often used in palliative and pediatric healthcare settings. Rubin, before public speaking events, finds comfort in a single ritual: holding a pen.
  3. Feeling distracted and unproductive? Use your sense of sound.
    The more you can control your surroundings, the less likely you are to be bothered by errant noises. Some may prefer the silence of a library; others might feel more concentrated or at peace amid the bustle of a coffee shop. Be intentional about creating an auditory environment that fits your preferences– it will build a more sustained feeling of comfort and attentiveness.
  4. Need a creative spark? Use your sense of sight.
    Be intentional about noticing the small visual details around you. By setting intentional “noticing” challenges—like spotting a certain color while on a walk, or studying the details of old buildings—you can train yourself to see beauty and whimsy in everyday surroundings. The world is full of hidden patterns and colors. Noticing them enhances our sense of creativity and connection.
  5. Want to feel closer to other people? Use your sense of taste.
    Enjoying unique foods and flavors with other people is one of the most ancient and universal human customs. So: eat with others. Rubin notes how invigorating it was when a recent gathering of friends tried to identify the five basic tastes of sweet, sour, salty, bitter, and umami in the food they were eating– and how it bonded the group.

By Gretchen Rubin for CNBC
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